I was recently reminded how important brothers and sisters come into play when researching a hard ancestors’ parents. This is called collateral research/lines. If you are struggling to find out who your great grandmother’s parents are, but you know she had siblings, then look at their lives. Research for documents, photos & stories attached to the sibling. They have the same parents as your great grandmother but may have a better paper trail.
Imagine hitting a roadblock in your quest to uncover the lineage of a great-grandmother whose parental links remain elusive. This is where the magic of collateral research shines. By shifting focus to her siblings, you open a new window into your ancestor’s world. Siblings share the same parents but might have left behind a richer trail of documents, photos, and stories. This isn’t just about finding names and dates; it’s about piecing together the lives that intertwine with your direct ancestors, providing context and depth to your family history.
Historically, legal documents, land records, and wills were more likely to be associated with male family members, especially before 1900. This makes the brothers of your ancestor a logical starting point for your research. After exhausting the information gleaned from the men, I then delve into the records of the female relatives. Don’t overlook census records as they can reveal astonishing connections—families often lived close to one another, a fact that holds especially true for immigrant families seeking the comfort of familiar faces in a new land.
Over the forty years I have been researching family histories, collateral line research has broken through some very tough brick walls. Once in a while, I discover additional siblings I didn’t even know existed.
A personal anecdote illustrates this perfectly: While researching a family that emigrated from Austria to Pennsylvania, I noticed a pattern of “saves” on Ancestry.com related to my entries. Curiosity led me to the tree of another user, a distant cousin connected through the sibling of my elusive Austrian ancestor. This connection unearthed a trove of documents that illuminated the family’s immigration story far more vividly than any direct search had done.
Collaborate with distant cousins. Most genealogy platforms have a message system so you can contact them, but stay somewhat anonymous until you are ready to exchange emails with one another ! You never know who might have family group photos that include your relatives.
Genealogy is as much about the process as it is about the findings. The thrill of the hunt, the joy of discovery, and the inevitable frustrations are all part of this deeply rewarding endeavor. Whether you’re a seasoned genealogist or a curious newcomer, remember to enjoy the journey. The stories you uncover will not only enrich your understanding of your ancestors but also weave new narratives into the fabric of your family’s history.
Have fun and enjoy the process!